Have you ever felt like you were taught to see your sexuaI and sensual self as existing separately from the rest of your life?
Do you tend to prioritise almost everything else over your embodiment & self care? Things like work, study, family life, finances or getting your domestic shit together?
We often tell ourselves that pleasure is superficial. We might even judge ourselves if we want more mind-blowing bedroom bliss or we enjoy the sensuous swing of our hips. We sometimes settle for intimacy that’s gooooood, not great.
There’s a reason for all this. Entire industries survive by keeping us hating on our bodies, judging every little part of us, feeling inadequate & comparing ourselves to each other. We’re encouraged to obsess over how we look instead of prioritising how we feel.
Women are facing an epidemic of stress, trauma, shame, tension, anxiety and exhaustion like never before. We’re often disconnected from our feelings and the innate wisdom of our bodies.
Yet, I’ve found that learning to embrace our bodies, our emotions, our sexuality & sensuality is absolutely essential to live with less self judgement, more confidence and waaaaaay more good juju generally.
As the creator of the women’s pelvic healing modality, ‘Yoni Mapping Therapy – The Bliss Method’, and co-founder of The Yoniverse, Australia’s most widespread intimacy education events for adults, I’ve basically spent the last decade of my life in the land of the female pelvis (Yes, my life is actually as weird as it sounds!)
I haven’t always been vaglna-obsessed though.
There was a time when I felt like my genitals weren’t part of me. I was disconnected from my body & ashamed of my sexuaIity.
My idea of 0rgasm consisted of a short, sharp clitoral peak 0rgasm with a vibrator (or electric toothbrush, OMG!) that usually left me feeling unsatisfied, kinda empty and numb.
FYI: I’m not special or different. I simply dedicated the time and energy to explore the possibilities of my female body. Also, I was sure that learning to put condoms on bananas (the full extent of my sex ed at school) was not a decent sex education!
I’ve risen from the depths of my exploration with countless jewels of inspiration, pearls of wisdom and a sense of absolute wonder and awe for the miracle that is the female body… and I’m so excited to share all that with as many women as possible!
I dream of a world where we respect sexuaIity as the powerful force that created us, where our bodies are loved and cared for, where we know that we are enough, exactly as we are. I long to co-create a culture where pleasure is seen as our natural birthright, and we are living full, pleasurable, deeply satisfying lives (both in the bedroom and outside of it).
If you do the practices in the course, you will definitely see significant shifts in the way you relate to your body, your sexuality and yourself as a sensual being.
You’ll have lifelong tools to support you in dealing with difficult emotions and overcoming feeling stuck, stressed or disconnected from your body.
These approaches and practices have been known to bring more radiance, relaxation, joy, pleasure, bliss AND mind-blowing orgasms to the women who have explored them, effects that impact all areas of their lives.
The structure of the course, with lots of video and audio practices you can do anytime, is something I’ve been cultivating for years. The course is offered over 3 months, which gives you plenty of time to really embody the practices and slowly weave them into your daily life – creating an embodied experience that always remains with you – practices you can access anytime.
I know how much resistance we can have towards self care and embodiment practices and using guided processes can help so much! You’ll be able to simply press play and follow along with the guided practices.
The next round will run from May 15th – August 15th, 2019.
If you’d like more personalised support and accountability than an online training can provide,
there is an option for extra coaching with me at super reduced rates when you buy it upfront as a package with the Yoni Club course below.
I’ll give you tailored practices and guidance for your unique situation to assist you on your journey.
Not at all. I’ve designed the course to be accessible and valuable for any level of experience, but especially for those of you who haven’t explored much in this area before. The practices are all guided by either video or audio and you’ll just press play and follow along in your own way. As you get more familiar with the approaches and practices you can adjust them to suit what works best for you.
We’ll arrange the times for your coaching sessions after you’ve started the course. I’ll be in touch! Also feel welcome to let me know when you feel ready to find the times. Ideally it’s good to get a good start on the content first, then have my support to go deeper.
I LOVE to make this work feel fun, fascinating, a bit silly and humorous. I’m not into spiritual-blah-blah or super seriousness. There’ll be a full spectrum from ridiculous vagina jokes (I have many!) to deep vulnerability – and everything in between.
You’ll need oil for massage, and from the start of May you’ll need a specific type of wand for internal massage. I’ll send out a list of options for various wand options at a variety of different prices – starting from $55 AUD up to over $100 AUD. A penis shaped dildo won’t be suitable, as a curve is important for ease with internal self massage.
The reason I’ve made the course 3 months long is so that you’ve got plenty of time to integrate the practices in your life. So you can choose to do more or less practice each week depending on your schedule etc. You can take a week off here and there and it won’t be a big deal.
You could spend as little as an hour a week, and as much as 3 hours a week exploring the material and practices, and around 2 hours a week would be a nice sweet spot for most women. Some of the content will be videos / audios that you can listen to while doing other things (hellooooo multi-tasking babes!) There’ll be short practices that are powerful to do regularly throughout the week, but you’re also welcome to do them less often. Basically the more time you’re able to devote to the course, the more you’ll get out of it.
It’s waaaay more inspiring and motivating to do this kind of work along with a group of other women exploring at the same time, so I encourage you to stick with the program if you can. Of course if you fall behind, you can catch up later. You’ll have access to all the practices to download and keep – they are amazing to use regularly!
Yoni Club has a specific focus on the female pelvis (anatomy etc) and reproductive system, so it isn’t an ideal training for those who were not born biologically female as there are many anatomical differences. If you no longer have your physical uterus / cervix, there are just a couple of practices that won’t be relevant for you, but 95% of the training will still be valid. We are open for women of all ages and backgrounds. Women of all sexual orientations are welcome – I’m committed to not use heteronormative language.
This kind of work is very gentle and there’s no pressure for you to do any of the practices if they don’t feel right for you. There will be a lot of guidance to connect with your body and listen to feel if you’re not open for a particular practice or approach.
This course will introduce ways of being with your emotions, your body and your sexually, and definitely some trauma-informed tools for healing… but healing from deep sexual trauma is not something that an online course can provide.
I recommend finding a practitioner to work 1:1 with – a body-based psychologist, Somatic Experiencing practitioner or highly trained trauma therapist.
I can’t be sure, but probably. I personally receive so much from going deeper with this work. The course is quite focused on your embodied experience, and I believe we can always go deeper in our embodiment – there’s no point where we’ve ‘done it all’.
We cannot claim that these practices or this course will solve any medical issues. There is evidence to suggest that internal pelvic massage and embodiment practices can support women to feel more sensitivity, release tension and pain, access different kinds of pleasure and feel generally more connected to that part of the body.
If you have a medical condition and you’re not sure if it’s right for you to do the course, please consult the relevant medical professionals. Generally, if it’s safe for you to dance, have penetrative sex and use sex toys, then there is no medical danger in the practices in this course. Everything is super gentle and you can adjust it for your needs. If you’re unable to experience penetration right now for any reason, the course will still be useful and you can explore the practices in your own time.
Paying for Yoni Club is your commitment to the course.
You have continued access to the material (or the future version of the course as it changes) so if things come up for you that prevent you from participating in the current round, it’s not a problem at all. These are lifelong tools you can keep to use whenever you like.
The course is not refundable if you change your mind. There are a limited number of places available per round so you paying for a space means the space is held for you and not offered to someone else.
Thank you so much for understanding.
Not generally, but for each round of the course, a small number of partial scholarships will be offered to women with less financial stability, women of colour, disabled women or single mothers, by application only. Please email firstname.lastname@example.org with SCHOLARSHIP in the title to be considered.
Yes, see above for payment plan option.
If you have any other questions that weren’t answered above, feel free to email me and I’ll get back to you ASAP! email@example.com