1:1 Holistic Sex & Intimacy Coaching

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What if there’s nothing wrong with you? 

What if your pleasure is a relationship to discover, rather than a problem to be fixed? 


Fulfilling intimacy is simply not the reality for most of us. 

We’re often trapped in the cycle of hustle – stressed, overwhelmed and exhausted. 

How are we supposed to feel like intimacy when we just don’t have the energy? How are we meant to ‘awaken our sensuality’ when we live in a culture that often denies it? 

As a women’s sexual wellness practitioner & holistic intimacy coach, I’ve been exploring the answers to these questions for the last decade of my professional (and personal) life. 

It’s been a wild journey of discovery, and what I’ve discovered has both delighted and surprised me…. 

First though, can you relate to any of these?

  • Your libido is missing in action. You’d rather Netflix ‘n’ actual chill.

  • You’re single & want to feel more confident dating and relating.

  • You’re curious about what kind of pleasure is REALLY possible.

  • You know self care is important (blah blah) but it all seems too hard.

  • You’re too stressed for intimacy. Overwhelmed. Exhausted even. 

  • You want to love your body, but whatever you try isn’t helping.

  • You struggle to set boundaries, or even know what you want.

Sound familiar?

If you can relate to any of the above situations (or maybe even a few of them – no judgement here!), and you’re ready to explore a new way forward, keep reading. There is hope, I promise. 

The most important thing to know is that accessing pleasure, feeling connected to your body & deepening in intimacy are skills that you can learn. Releasing numbness and stress and feeling sexually empowered, confident and connected doesn’t just magically happen on it’s own. 

It’s a way of approaching your body and your sensuality that can be practiced.

This is what I know to be true...

No matter who you are, your body has immense capacity for pleasure.

Even if things are rough right now, your sexuality isn’t broken.

Sexual shame and guilt are normal, but we don’t have to live with them forever.

Pleasure actually supports your nervous system to relieve stress & overwhelm.

You are capable of deep, delicious intimacy, with yourself and a partner.

Hi... I'm Bonnie Bliss &
I'm a somatic sexologist & female pleasure expert.

I’ve spent the last decade of my life supporting thousands of women to release numbness and shame and feel more alive, confident, empowered and orgasmic. 

My work has been featured in...

Holistic Intimacy & Sex Coaching

Private mentoring by application (for women only)

I’m interested in helping you create a sustainable way forward, so I mostly work with clients over a period of time -usually 3 or 6 months, by application. My books are often full, but you can sometimes get lucky and grab a spot straight away!

My personalised coaching programs are for women who are ready to say goodbye to numbness and disconnection and access more aliveness, confidence and next level pleasure.

This is a deep dive into the world of your self care, your body, your desires and your pelvis. 

There is no magic button that will catapult you into the land of deeply fulfilling intimacy without any kind of practice, commitment or self enquiry. (Doing practices to access more pleasure is pretty damn enjoyable, though!)

NOTE: I have super limited spaces for 1:1 work and will only commit to work with you if it’s right for us both – I prioritise longer term support because it takes time to create lasting change in your life.

Coaching could be right for you if...

  • You’re ready to open to a more pleasurable, fulfilling and connected way of living

  • Honestly? You suck at doing online courses. You need live, tailored guidance from an actual human

  • You’re seeking a no bullshit, grounded, embodied approach from someone experienced

  • You’re willing to explore parts of yourself you’ve never met, even though it can be scary

  • You understand that levelling up with your sexuality & pleasure will support all areas of your life

  • You’re not up for just continuing the way things are and hoping something will be different

  • You know this is important so you’re committed to invest in yourself and do the necessary work

Is it time to reclaim
your sensual self,
just for you?

Are you feeling a big YES to all this?

The deeper coaching work (3 or 6 month personalised programs) are offered by application only, to make sure that we’re compatible and I can definitely support you.

Apply below and I’ll be in touch to arrange a chat.

This is what women say about working with me...

"Realness and rawness! Bonnie works in a gentle and playful way that is supportive of the nervous system making you feel really safe as you explore and unfold the parts of yourself you've missed for too long. Working with Bonnie is like remembering who you are with your best mate by your side cheering you on. Such a gift to this world!"
Melissa, Perth
Melissa, Perth
What I love about Bonnie is that she clearly has her own flavour of teaching. She is definitely no cookie-cutter type teacher - you know the type where you can tell the person has read some information somewhere and is simply regurgitating! I spent a day doing simple embodiment practices with her and felt absolutely elated, enlivened and inspired. She also teaches practices that are very beginner friendly - not weird and creepy at all. I find her very tuned in to what works for women. Bonnie is one of my favourite teachers for women’s work and I always keep an eye on what she’s writing and what she’s offering.
Nilanthi ChandraMeditation teacher and retreat facilitator
Nilanthi Chandra
If you happen to have a vagina and want to know how to live a really magical, pleasurable, far-beyond-mediocre life... You should definitely check out Bonnie's work! She's charming, funny and her orgasmic-ness is contagious!
Holly WodetzkiFounder, Shiva Shakti Dance
Holly Wodetzki
“There is not one thing you couldn't ask Bonnie about your womb, your sexuality and the plethora of ways to reach pleasure. She is right there with you, ready to answer. Also, she is the embodiment of what she teaches! If you are one of many women who is shy, private, ashamed or shut down around your sexuality, yoni and pleasure, OR...if you simply want more of everything…check Bonnie’s work out!"
Marcela WidrigFounder, Fierce Embodiment
Marcela Widrig
“Bonnie is very real. There is no fluff ‘padding’ out her courses, it is all genuine, deeply rooted, anchored, informative, practical and useful content delivered with a felt sense of feminine support. Bonnie is a wisdom keeper of knowledge that all women should know. What a gift! I would highly recommend working with Bonnie, as I have really felt that her number one priority is giving you simple, profound, easy to integrate tools.”
Stacey
Stacey
Bonnie really knows her stuff!! Her work has really helped me shift away from my goal-oriented view of pleasure and deepen my connection with my own body and it’s needs, desires, and boundaries. I also feel like I know more about female anatomy than I ever thought possible. Thank you Bonnie for offering this beautiful work to women - it is SO needed!
Hayley, Canada
Hayley, Canada
"Being a part of Bonnie's courses has been transformational for me. Sexual intimacy with myself and others has always been a struggle, and I've made more progress these last 6 months than I have in my entire life! Bonnie's approach to sexuality is revolutionary, and I believe every woman on the planet should be exposed to her work!"
Rachelle
Rachelle
"With Bonnie, you feel both safe and encouraged to explore parts of yourself you haven't dared touch before (both physically and emotionally). It's no exaggeration to say that she is the best sexuality and embodiment teacher I have ever come across - and I've done quite a lot of classes, workshops and courses in this type of work!"
Thelma, Sweden
Thelma, Sweden
"Bonnie makes everyone feel welcome and at ease. She has such a natural and down to earth way. Her messages of self-love and pleasure are very accessible and can be integrated into your normal day to day life without having to carve out hours for some special practices. Its so easy! Thank you Bonnie, you have truly changed my life with your work.”
Kristina, The Maldives
Kristina, The Maldives
“Working with Bonnie is a true pleasure in itself. She delivers her workshops in such a gorgeously honest and relatable way. I found myself thinking: ‘yes, me too!’ or ‘yes, I get that now!’. Her focus on consent and invitation to the practise allowed me to move at my own pace and really feel comfortable to deeply connect with the practices. Thank you Bonnie! You have opened up a part of me that was always there, it just needed the gentle encouragement to shine through."
Shan, Melbourne
Shan, Melbourne
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Areas we could explore include...

  • Self care practices for deeper pleasure
  • Overcoming libido challenges to feel more open to intimacy
  • Getting strong and clear in your boundaries
  • Relating tools for deeper intimacy & mind-blowing intimacy
  • Nervous system regulation to support yourself through intense times
  • Releasing numbness, bringing more sensitivity into your body
  • Embodiment practices for sensual aliveness
  • The lesser-known paths to deep internal orgasms
  • Reclaiming your sexuality as your own (to enjoy alone and/or share with another!)
  • Loving your body on a whole other level, no matter what you look like
  • Releasing shame or fear in relation to your sexuality
  • Internal Yoni Mapping practices to release tension patterns from the pelvis

Your body is an incredible instrument. Do you know how to play yours?


Places for a 3 or 6 month personalised coaching program with Bonnie are now open by application only...

“I have quite a layered history of religious shame, endometriosis, infertility procedures, and betrayal trauma. To learn why I've been so numb certainly came as a relief. You mean I can actually do something to heal?

With tons of self-compassion, lots of patience (this is a hard one for me!), and determination, I have been able to heal and transform the way I view my sexuality - emotionally, mentally, physically, and yes spiritually! It's been a beautiful journey - worth every effort. Thank you, Bonnie!!”
Noel, USA
Noel, USA
“I’m fortunate to have discovered Bonnie early on in my sexual journey. Through Bonnie’s work, I’m grateful for having had such an authentic, relevant & grounded launch pad, including a proper and complete understanding of my yoni and pleasure anatomy!

Bonnie is a rare gem. Her approach is authentic, gentle, embodied, relatable, natural & grounded. She creates and holds a safe, nurturing & honouring space. Bonnie's teachings are genuine, no B.S., holistic, informative, practical and easy to integrate; and I love her unique humour and enthusiasm.”
Alex, Melbourne
Alex, Melbourne
“I've shifted a lot of my yoni and body shame, dismantled limiting stories I carried and have begun to cultivate a more positive, playful and honouring relationship to my body and Yoni. I’ve found courage, curiosity and connection where before there was fear, shame and disconnect. I’ve discovered a special world inside of me I get to explore and experienced the value of embracing pleasure in my life.

Bonnie is phenomenal! Switched on, grounded, absolutely amazing as a facilitator; I found Bonnie to be very real, personable, down-to-earth, relatable, compassionate, safe, wise, funny, kind, responsive and supportive.”


Sarah, Melbourne
Sarah, Melbourne
“Bonnie's work is real and raw and cuts straight to the point. She has a way of making you feel so comfortable and at ease in sharing and exploring.

You never feel like you are being forced into something that you aren't open to or ready for. Everything is a beautiful invitation to explore and be curious, with a sense of play. What Bonnie shares in her work is something that I have been waiting for for a long time.

I am a sensual woman who feels deeply and she definitely speaks my language. Thank you Bonnie. You have given me the courage to explore myself more deeply and helped me trust myself more completely. I look forward to learning and growing in my new awareness."
Katie, Tasmania
Katie, Tasmania
“When I first met Bonnie, I was not in touch with my yoni the way I am today. We’re brought up, for the most part in Western society, with huge doses of shame around our body and our sexuality. Coupled with abuse and mistreatment throughout our lineage this can be a tight knot to unravel and for many it can take a lifetime to do so.


What I love about Bonnie‘s work is that it’s a gateway to the unknown. She has a very soft and juicy presence and the work for her is easy when done with love and a gentle unwavering calm. For any women who’d like to start to connect with deeper self or go further along their current path, this work sets you on a journey you can follow and explore easily - whether for healing, pleasure, remembering, and so much more.
Dee, Australia
Dee, Australia
"As a survivor of sexual trauma I have spent much time researching female pleasure courses as I attempt to have a relationship with my sexuality again, and Bonnie’s Yoni Club is the only one that I found I could intuitively trust – I was right.

So many people in the field of sexology and women’s pleasure focus on what is trendy, not what is necessarily beneficial or sustainable. Bonnie understands that pleasure is much more than a quick, commodified orgasm.

Bonnie is authentic, passionate and insanely knowledgeable. The world would benefit immensely from hearing her wisdom.
Delaney, USA
Delaney, USA
“I'm definitely more connected to my pelvic space. My attitude towards it has far more awareness, acceptance, curiosity and joy compared to the numbness, ignorance, apathy and blame / shame in the past.

Your work has given me a new connection to my pelvis and yoni, with access to more juiciness and interest in exploring practices that can improve my pelvic health / wellbeing. I’ve experienced healing from past wounds of unwanted or coerced sexual approaches. It has also given the possibility of a healthier sexual relationship with my partner as this became a step for my own healing.”
Carol
Carol
“Bonnie has such incredible insights and tools to share. I feel like I have learned so much about myself and nurtured my connection with pleasure.

She has such a gentle and holistic approach to sexual wellness that I really admire. I believe every woman would benefit from Bonnie’s work."
Rachel, Brisbane
Rachel, Brisbane
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