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Bonnie Bliss

Somatic Sexologist, Women's Pelvic Wellness Specialist & Female Pleasure Expert.

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Hi, I'm Bonnie...

When I went to the year 9 Career’s Advisor at school, I can’t say I had any idea that I’d build a career supporting women to love their bodies, overcome libido challenges, have more fulfilling intimacy and move forward after experiencing sexual trauma. I kinda fell into this work unexpectedly about a decade ago, after my partner at the time introduced me to a different approach.

This stuff did not always come easily to me. For many years, I felt numb, disconnected from my body and like my sexuality was broken. 

Fumbling my way through the first 6 years of my sexually active life, it seemed like my sexuality existed to please others. I decided that my pleasure wasn’t important and I’d never be able to enjoy intimacy. I thought I’d be numb forever.

Fast forward 10 years and the sensitivity and pleasure I have in my body is way beyond what I ever imagined was possible. I now know that the more we sensitise our bodies and open ourselves to feel more, the more our potential expands!

I feel a deep sense of care and love for my body and I feel empowered to communicate if something doesn’t feel right to me. Shame doesn’t get me like it used to, and I know how to use embodiment practices to support self enquiry, access pleasure, build sensitivity and process my emotions to get myself out of feeling stuck.

On a daily basis, I get to support thousands of women to love their bodies, expand their pleasure potential, have mind-blowing intimacy, befriend their emotions and build more resilience to show up in their lives and do what’s important. It’s such an honour to share this work in the world.

I'm a Somatic Sexologist,

female pleasure expert & women’s pelvic wellness specialist. I’ve basically spent the last decade of my life in the world of the female pelvis. Nothing brings me more joy than supporting women to release shame & numbness, connect with their pleasure, overcome libido challenges and discover more of who they are.

I've done a boatload of training...

which is all listed below. I believe in being transparent about exactly what I’m trained in, and I want to respect my incredible teachers and what I’ve received from them. My biggest learning, however, has come from the over 10,000 hours I’ve spent in 1:1 client work & facilitating workshops, trainings & retreats, all in person.

These days, my work is all online.

In 2018, I launched Yoni Club, a 3 month online women’s sexual wellness training. Now, almost 1500 women have joined Yoni Club from all over the world, and the results they get from this program actually blow my mind. We now offer the program with trauma-informed support. Most of my energy & focus goes into Yoni Club these days, but I do occasionally open my books for 1:1 coaching.

I'm a classic workaholic type...

I’ve been through burn out and massive stress in the past, so I need to consciously create space to rest and to simply be. At any given point I’m working on a handful of projects and I’m constantly (gently) wrangling my relentless creative inspiration into clear, specific goals. There’s a lot of letting go!

Passionate about writing,

movement, simple living, quality time with loved ones, I’m happiest when I’m by a fire, watching a sunset, wandering along the beach or through the bush. I lived for many years in Europe, enjoying trips to India, Nepal & Asia. I feel pretty done with overseas travel for now, which is convenient because the borders are closed anyway! (though I’d love to visit New Zealand one day…)

I'm a country girl at heart.

I grew up on a farm on Yuin country on the south coast of NSW, Australia, without electricity or TV, and have spent large parts of my adult life living in coastal country areas, but I’m very happy to be living in Melbourne. So many of my close friends (and my godson!) live here and  it feels like home right now.

“I have quite a layered history of religious shame, endometriosis, infertility procedures, and betrayal trauma. To learn why my yoni has been so 'numb' certainly came as a relief. You mean I can actually do something to help her (my yoni) heal?

With tons of self-compassion, lots of patience (this is a hard one for me!), and determination, I have been able to heal and transform the way I view my sexuality - emotionally, mentally, physically, and yes spiritually! It's been a beautiful journey - worth every effort. Thank you, Bonnie!!”
Noel, USA
Noel, USA
“I’m fortunate to have discovered Bonnie early on in my journey. Through Bonnie’s work, I’m grateful for having had such an authentic, relevant & grounded launch pad, including a proper and complete understanding of my pleasure anatomy!

Bonnie is a rare gem. Her approach is authentic, gentle, embodied, relatable, natural & grounded. She creates and holds a safe, nurturing & honouring space. Bonnie's teachings are genuine, no B.S., holistic, informative, practical and easy to integrate; and I love her unique humour and enthusiasm.”
Alex, Melbourne
Alex, Melbourne
“I've shifted a lot of my yoni and body shame, dismantled limiting stories I carried and have begun to cultivate a more positive, playful and honouring relationship to my body and Yoni. I’ve found courage, curiosity and connection where before there was fear, shame and disconnect. I’ve discovered a special world inside of me I get to explore and experienced the value of embracing pleasure in my life.

Bonnie is phenomenal! Switched on, grounded, absolutely amazing as a facilitator; I found Bonnie to be very real, personable, down-to-earth, relatable, compassionate, safe, wise, funny, kind, responsive and supportive.”


Sarah, Melbourne
Sarah, Melbourne
“Bonnie's work is real and raw and cuts straight to the point. She has a way of making you feel so comfortable and at ease in sharing and exploring.

You never feel like you are being forced into something that you aren't open to or ready for. Everything is a beautiful invitation to explore and be curious, with a sense of play. What Bonnie shares in her work is something that I have been waiting for for a long time.

I am a sensual woman who feels deeply and she definitely speaks my language. Thank you Bonnie. You have given me the courage to explore myself more deeply and helped me trust myself more completely. I look forward to learning and growing in my new awareness."
Katie, Tasmania
Katie, Tasmania
“When I first met Bonnie, I was not in touch with my yoni the way I am today. We’re brought up, for the most part in Western society, with huge doses of shame around our body and our sexuality. Coupled with abuse and mistreatment throughout our lineage this can be a tight knot to unravel and for many it can take a lifetime to do so.


What I love about Bonnie‘s work is that it’s a gateway to the unknown. She has a very soft and juicy presence and the work for her is easy when done with love and a gentle unwavering calm. For any women who’d like to start to connect with deeper self or go further along their current path, this work sets you on a journey you can follow and explore easily - whether for healing, pleasure, remembering, and so much more.
Dee, Australia
Dee, Australia
"As a survivor of sexual trauma I have spent much time researching female pleasure courses as I attempt to have a relationship with my sexuality again, and Bonnie’s Yoni Club is the only one that I found I could intuitively trust – I was right.

So many people in the field of sexology and women’s pleasure focus on what is trendy, not what is necessarily beneficial or sustainable. Bonnie understands that pleasure is much more than a quick, commodified orgasm.

Bonnie is authentic, passionate and insanely knowledgeable. The world would benefit immensely from hearing her wisdom.
Delaney, USA
Delaney, USA
“I'm definitely more connected to my pelvic space. My attitude towards it has far more awareness, acceptance, curiosity and joy compared to the numbness, ignorance, apathy and blame / shame in the past.

Your work has given me a new connection to my pelvis and yoni, with access to more juiciness and interest in exploring practices that can improve my pelvic health / wellbeing. I’ve experienced healing from past wounds of unwanted or coerced sexual approaches. It has also given the possibility of a healthier sexual relationship with my partner as this became a step for my own healing.”
Carol
Carol
“Bonnie has such incredible insights and tools to share. I feel like I have learned so much about myself and nurtured my connection with pleasure.

She has such a gentle and holistic approach to sexual wellness that I really admire. I believe every woman would benefit from Bonnie’s work."
Rachel, Brisbane
Rachel, Brisbane
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A gifted speaker, facilitator & guest teacher...

Bonnie’s unique expertise is highly sought after for events, festivals, guest teaching, interviews & articles. With a warm, real and down to earth speaking style, Bonnie loves to use humour and personal stories to inspire and engage her audience.

With a depth of experience that ensures she speaks from her own embodied understanding, Bonnie has a wealth of experience gained from spending many thousands of hours with clients (Even though she no longer works with clients in person).

 Widely recognised as an expert in the field of women’s pelvic wellness, her work has been featured in print in Body+Soul Magazine, Living Now Magazine, Australian Yoga Journal, Sexual Health Magazine (USA) and online on Elephant Journal and VICE (among others) as well as on various podcasts and summits.

Regularly invited in as an expert guest teacher on other trainings, Bonnie is open to discuss potential collaborations.

Bonnie’s favourite topics to speak on are… 

Pelvic wellness, pleasureable living, emotional healing, sex education, sexual challenges women face in our culture, common myths and misconceptions about the vagina, the many kinds of female orgasm and pleasure as a nervous system resource.

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Professional Training & Background…

Bonnie’s formal training includes: 

Somatic Sexology, Certified Somatic Sexologist, through the IISB, Zurich

Gestalt Psychotherapy – Erik Smith – Gestalt Institute of Scandinavia

Certified Karsei Nei Tsang Practitioner (Taoist Abdominal Pelvic Therapy) Thailand

Introduction to Somatic Therapy Training – Amanda Patterson

Embodiment Teacher Training – Michaela Boehm (still completing)

Certified Holistic Pelvic Care (TM) Practitioner, trained by Tami Lynn Kent, USA

Extensive training in Hatha Yoga, Denmark

Certified Ka Huna Massage Therapist – Mette’s Institute, QLD, Australia

Urogenital Osteopathic Techniques – Natalie le Jeune, France / Bali

Female reproductive massage – Pi Jem Thanachon, Thailand

Bonnie is grateful for the opportunity to learn from and be inspired by many different teachers and experts in their fields. She has been trained by the following teachers in areas including embodiment, psychotherapy, bodywork, somatics and spirituality…

Jenny Blyth (Birthwork) – bodywork for birth preparation – Australia
Natalie le Jeune – Urogenital osteopathy techniques – France
Holly Wodetzki – Shiva Shakti Dance – Australia
Chogyal Namkhai Norbu Rinpoche – (Tibetan Dzogchen Master) Italy
Michaela Boehm (relating / intimacy / polarity/ lineage work) USA
Steve James – co-teacher with Michaela Boehm, USA
Tami Lynn Kent – Holistic Pelvic Care (TM) – USA
John Bennati – private training in pelvic Muscle Corrective Therapy, Australia
Erik Smith – (Gestalt Therapist trainer) Gestalt Institute, Denmark
Didi Liebold – Somatic Sexologist, Switzerland
Joseph Kramer –  founder of Somatic Sexology, USA
Pi Jem Thanachon– Female Reproductive massage, Thailand
Susanne Roursgaard – Female Sexuality & Dearmouring, Australia
Gigi Grace – Nervous System Therapist, Australia
Amanda Patterson – Somatic Therapy Training, Australia

"Realness and rawness! Bonnie works in a gentle and playful way that is supportive of the nervous system making you feel really safe as you explore and unfold the parts of yourself you've missed for too long. Working with Bonnie is like remembering who you are with your best mate by your side cheering you on. Such a gift to this world!"
Melissa, Perth
Melissa, Perth
“I couldn’t recommend Bonnie Bliss and her Yoni Club course more highly! It has given me far more than I could have imagined. 
I am amazed at how deeply connected I feel to my pelvis, womb and yoni. I’m so grateful for the juicy pleasures that have opened up in my life. Above all, my Yoni wants to say ‘Thank you, Bonnie!” For getting me to finally give her the respect and reverence she so clearly deserves.”
Emma May, Sydney
Emma May, Sydney
What I love about Bonnie is that she clearly has her own flavour of teaching. She is definitely no cookie-cutter type teacher - you know the type where you can tell the person has read some information somewhere and is simply regurgitating! I spent a day doing simple embodiment practices with her and felt absolutely elated, enlivened and inspired. She also teaches practices that are very beginner friendly - not weird and creepy at all. I find her very tuned in to what works for women. Bonnie is one of my favourite teachers for women’s work and I always keep an eye on what she’s writing and what she’s offering.
Nilanthi ChandraMeditation teacher and retreat facilitator
Nilanthi Chandra
If you happen to have a vagina and want to know how to live a really magical, pleasurable, far-beyond-mediocre life... You should definitely check out Bonnie's work! She's charming, funny and her orgasmic-ness is contagious!
Holly WodetzkiFounder, Shiva Shakti Dance
Holly Wodetzki
Bonnie's work cuts straight to the point. She has a way of making you feel so comfortable and at ease in sharing and exploring. What Bonnie shares in her work is something that I have been waiting for for a long time. I am a sensual woman who feels deeply and she definitely speaks my language. Thank you Bonnie. You have given me the courage to explore myself more deeply and helped me trust myself more completely."
Katie, Tasmania
Katie, Tasmania
“Bonnie is very real. There is no fluff ‘padding’ out her courses, it is all genuine, deeply rooted, anchored, informative, practical and useful content delivered with a felt sense of feminine support. Bonnie is a wisdom keeper of knowledge that all women should know. What a gift! I would highly recommend working with Bonnie, as I have really felt that her number one priority is giving you simple, profound, easy to integrate tools.”
Stacey
Stacey
Bonnie really knows her stuff!! Her work has really helped me shift away from my goal-oriented view of pleasure and deepen my connection with my own body and it’s needs, desires, and boundaries. I also feel like I know more about female anatomy than I ever thought possible. Thank you Bonnie for offering this beautiful work to women - it is SO needed!
Hayley, Canada
Hayley, Canada
"Being a part of Bonnie's courses has been transformational for me. Sexual intimacy with myself and others has always been a struggle, and I've made more progress these last 6 months than I have in my entire life! Bonnie's approach to sexuality is revolutionary, and I believe every woman on the planet should be exposed to her work!"
Rachelle
Rachelle
"With Bonnie, you feel both safe and encouraged to explore parts of yourself you haven't dared touch before (both physically and emotionally). It's no exaggeration to say that she is the best sexuality and embodiment teacher I have ever come across - and I've done quite a lot of classes, workshops and courses in this type of work!"
Thelma, Sweden
Thelma, Sweden
"Bonnie makes everyone feel welcome and at ease. She has such a natural and down to earth way. Her messages of self-love and pleasure are very accessible and can be integrated into your normal day to day life without having to carve out hours for some special practices. Its so easy! Thank you Bonnie, you have truly changed my life with your work.”
Kristina, The Maldives
Kristina, The Maldives
“Working with Bonnie is a true pleasure in itself. She delivers her workshops in such a gorgeously honest and relatable way. I found myself thinking: ‘yes, me too!’ or ‘yes, I get that now!’. Her focus on consent and invitation to the practise allowed me to move at my own pace and really feel comfortable to deeply connect with the practices. Thank you Bonnie! You have opened up a part of me that was always there, it just needed the gentle encouragement to shine through."
Shan, Melbourne
Shan, Melbourne
"I am loving Yoni Club so much! Never have I felt I have all the tools, support, guidance, and the right information all in one spot! I'm learning to bring pleasure into my daily life more and getting better at listening to my body (I've never spoken her language but now we're at least at a rudimentary communicative stage, haha).

A lot of it is simply getting used to the idea that I deserve pleasure & I deserve to know my own body better, which is completely new thinking, the opposite to what I've thought all my life!! Thanks so much for doing what you do, Bonnie!"
Emily
Emily
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