How to Get What You Want in Bed
I’ve seen these memes around lately, posted by sex educators and sex therapists. Memes saying things like: “How to get the pleasure you want? Simple:
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BONNIE BLISS
SEXUAL WELLNESS | PLEASURE | INTIMACY
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Womens' Sexual Wellness 101
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Or let go of old sexual patterns?
Or know how to get what you want in bed?
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Or let go of old sexual patterns?
Or know how to get what you want in bed?
Grab my FREE audio training while it's hot...
Stuck in your head about sex? Wish it was easier?
Most of us had almost no *actual* sex education and yet we think we’re supposed to be super confident in bed and have access to multiple orgasms at any given moment?
The sad truth is, we weren’t born magically great-in-bed.
(Despite what we’d like to believe!)
The good news is that feeling confident, pleasure-filled, orgasmic and blissed out in the bedroom isn’t reserved for special people. It’s literally a skill that can be learned…
HI, I'M BONNIE BLISS,
also known as 'The Vagina Lady'.
As a Somatic Sexologist, pleasure educator & creator of Yoni Club… I’m all about giving you practical tools to feel more pleasure, let go of sticky sexual shame, have better orgasms and feel more confident in the bedroom.
(Pssst, ‘Yoni’ is a very spiritual Sanskrit word that I like to use because it refers to the vulva, vagina & that whole zone!)
I offer online trainings, private coaching, 1:1 sessions, workshops and retreats related to sexual wellness, pleasure, intimacy and vulva / vagina-related stuff in general.
It’s a 3 month deep dive training for women in sexual wellness, all online.
Our sexuality isn't a separate part of ourselves.
We can’t just put it away in a box and act like it aint no thing...
(although I’ve definitely tried that a few times!)
These days, I’m totally pleasure-obsessed, but to be honest, pleasure didn’t always come easily to me…
I used to feel like my genitals weren’t part of my body. I was disconnected from myself, totally numbed out during sex and ashamed of my sexuaIity.
My idea of orgasm and pleasure was limited to a very fast-paced, tension-filled two minute session with my vibrator (or electric toothbrush!) that usually left me feeling unsatisfied, kinda empty and flat.
I’d never orgasmed with a partner and I was super embarrassed about it.
Now I’m able to experience immense pleasure in my body, literally whenever I feel like (as long as I choose to focus on it!). With AND without a partner.
FYI: I’m not special or different. Mind-blowing orgasms & pleasure are not something reserved for a special few.
Epic pleasure is for anyone who wants it, but it does require a bit of practice.
I do a whole bunch of other things, apart from Yoni Club….
Here’s what I know to be true…
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No matter who you are, your body has immense capacity for pleasure.
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No matter how rough things are right now, your sexuality isn’t broken.
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Sexual shame and guilt is normal, but we don’t need to live with it forever.
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Being able to orient towards pleasure (whatever feels good) is essential when healing from trauma.
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You are capable of deep, delicious intimacy, with yourself and others.
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Your sexuality is powerful, beautiful and worthy of being honoured.
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Your pleasure potential is guaranteed to expand, the more you explore it and open to it.
What people are saying….
"If you happen to have a vagina and want to know how to live a really magical, pleasurable, far-beyond-mediocre life...
You should definitely check out Bonnie's work!
She's charming, funny and her orgasmic-ness is contagious!
Holly WodetziFounder, Shiva Shakti Dance You should definitely check out Bonnie's work!
She's charming, funny and her orgasmic-ness is contagious!
"I am loving Yoni Club so much!
Never have I felt I have all the tools, support, guidance, and the right information all in one spot!
I'm learning to bring pleasure into my daily life more and getting better at listening to my body (I've never spoken her language but now we're at least at a rudimentary communicative stage, haha).
A lot of it is simply getting used to the idea that I deserve pleasure & I deserve to know my own body better, which is completely new thinking, the opposite to what I've thought all my life!! Thanks so much for doing what you do, Bonnie!"
EmilyYoni Club Member I'm learning to bring pleasure into my daily life more and getting better at listening to my body (I've never spoken her language but now we're at least at a rudimentary communicative stage, haha).
A lot of it is simply getting used to the idea that I deserve pleasure & I deserve to know my own body better, which is completely new thinking, the opposite to what I've thought all my life!! Thanks so much for doing what you do, Bonnie!"
"I couldn't recommend Bonnie Bliss and her Yoni Club course more highly! It's been an incredible journey and has given me far more than I could have imagined.
Bonnie has clearly thrown herself, heart and soul, into creating this online course out of her rich and embodied experience and knowledge. She is just an extraordinary resource and I am so grateful that she's made the effort to create such an accessible and comprehensive immersion into so many aspects of feminine empowerment!
I am amazed at how deeply connected I feel to my pelvis, womb and yoni. I am so grateful for the juicy pleasures that have opened up in my life. Above all, my yoni wants to say 'Thank you, Bonnie!' for getting me to finally give her the respect and reverence she so clearly deserves!"
Emma MayYoni Club Member Bonnie has clearly thrown herself, heart and soul, into creating this online course out of her rich and embodied experience and knowledge. She is just an extraordinary resource and I am so grateful that she's made the effort to create such an accessible and comprehensive immersion into so many aspects of feminine empowerment!
I am amazed at how deeply connected I feel to my pelvis, womb and yoni. I am so grateful for the juicy pleasures that have opened up in my life. Above all, my yoni wants to say 'Thank you, Bonnie!' for getting me to finally give her the respect and reverence she so clearly deserves!"
"Yoni Club: the best investment I've made in a loooong time!!
I had the most amazing and empowering birth this third time round. I truly believe this is because of all the work I’ve been doing through Yoni Club. I’m also still incorporating your exercises and principles into life with a newborn!"
Aaria ClairMother of 3 I had the most amazing and empowering birth this third time round. I truly believe this is because of all the work I’ve been doing through Yoni Club. I’m also still incorporating your exercises and principles into life with a newborn!"
“Yoni Mapping Therapy is like having your vagina made known to you. It’s like having a woman guide you to know how f**king amazing (and worth worshipping) your pelvic area is.
So this is what Bonnie did with me, and I discovered a whole new me. A side of my body I never knew. A gentle side. A receptive side. A side that ‘knew’, that held answers if I dared to ask the questions. WOW.”
JacintaRegistered Nurse, VIC So this is what Bonnie did with me, and I discovered a whole new me. A side of my body I never knew. A gentle side. A receptive side. A side that ‘knew’, that held answers if I dared to ask the questions. WOW.”
"I feel both personally & professionally inspired by what Bonnie shares in Yoni Club. I love the combination of practices and information, content, interviews, recommendations and resources. As a woman and also as a midwife I got so excited by info about hormones, menstrual cycles, the vagus nerve, pelvic anatomy etc.
All that was balanced beautifully by the invitation and guidance to explore myself with reverence, self love and curiosity. There's a lot to sink your teeth (or fingers) into. Also Bonnie is a legend. A beautiful mix of fun, compassionate, real, accessible and very knowledgeable."
MarikoMidwife, Australia All that was balanced beautifully by the invitation and guidance to explore myself with reverence, self love and curiosity. There's a lot to sink your teeth (or fingers) into. Also Bonnie is a legend. A beautiful mix of fun, compassionate, real, accessible and very knowledgeable."
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Pleasure is your birthright.
What if you could…
feel spine-tingling whole body pleasure anytime?
take your internal sensations from numb to whoaaaa?
have mind-blowing 0rgasms (from many different places in your body!)?
be having epic s*x, as often as you feel like?
know exactly what to do to give your libido some sweet lovin’?
fall in love with your glorious, powerful & pleasure-filled body?
feel super confident in your s*xuality while dating & relating?
Even if…
You’re completely overwhelmed with life right now.
You don’t have time, life’s waaaay too busy.
Your libido has been AWOL for literally years.
You’ve forgotten what an orgasm feels like (or you’ve never had one)
You’re struggling to deal generally and having an epic s*x life feels far away.
Your s*x life is currently kinda sucky (or non existent!)
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